M&M types
Posted on June 25, 2007
Filed Under fauxdom, neurotic romance, sillyness, stepping up
Last week I was enjoying the company of a long time good friend, one time client, who has become somewhat of both a benefactor and a mentor over the years. We scratch each other’s backs when it’s needed; and he’s known me since my fist months as an escort, through my cuckolding relationship, and other romantic dramas. He is *very* vanilla; and while he knows OF this side of me, he neither understands it nor wishes to. Which is ironic, because he is so very submissive and has done so much for me over the years that would easily surpass anything the subs I’ve mingled with have in the way of service and worship. From gifts to manual labor, if I just ask, it’s mine; he hears all about my love life, and we always do what I want. I get all the oral sex I want, and if he comes to visit and I don’t want sex, it’s fine with him, he just spoils me instead- or leaves me alone if I wish. Details of his personal life, too, would read like most subs chastity blogs. He’s just not a masochist, and like so many with only popular cultural exposure to BDSM, doesn’t understand the difference between masochism and submission, or that they can exist separately, as can dominance and sadism.
Anyway- in the midst of our play I had temporarily lost control of my senses and dug my nails deep into his arm, drawing blood unknowingly. When I saw the mark a few minutes later, and apologized, he said
“Yeah, you know I’m not one of those M&M’s”
and we both laughed at how bad a joke that was. I thought about explaining to him that indeed, he was ‘one of those’ – just not an ‘m’ type….but why ruin a good thing?
Maybe he just coined a new term for vanilla men with no apparent interest in kink, but whom are submissive in their relations with women. And, while my M&M is a really nice thing to have…this visit just left me realizing that this door to my dominant side, now open, will not be easily shut, and M&M’s don’t work well as pervertables, and are just not going to satisfy any more.
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